Tu Lei once said: We are always good at hurting those who love us, because we can't hurt those who don't love us.
The same is true. Many outsiders may hear irrelevant words, but they will cause damage to their lover.
I have a friend, wheat, who has been married for three years but has not been able to continue this marriage.
Before she got married, she thought that her boyfriend was just a science and engineering boy who couldn't talk. After getting married, she found that it was too difficult for them to communicate.
Concerned about him, wanting him to smoke less and play less games, he came up with a sentence, "How are you more annoying than my mother!"
I want to talk to him, take the initiative to ask the words and ask for work, but he comes up with a sentence, "I don't understand you!"
The grievance wants to get his comfort, but he is too sorrowful. "What is so good to cry, how so fragile!"
Later, the wheat put away its own concern, no longer took the initiative to provoke the topic, and no longer showed its own vulnerability.
He thought she was "mature and sensible", and she was already cold.
Until the wheat raised the divorce without warning, her husband realized that the distance between the two had been so far, desperately trying to recover. Those who have made up their minds to leave, it is useless to recover.
Because, if something is broken in the bottom of my heart, it will never be able to recover; if one door is closed, it will no longer be open to you.
The most vulnerable person in this life is the one who loves you, but the one who should not hurt the most is the one who loves you.xx